Ugh!! I hate my "friends"!!!
We got in to a fight and they were both against me, and they threated to kill me, stab me I hope I would die. Just to never see me again.What kind of friends do that?
The reason we got into a fight was because I said that I couldn't handle that sometimes they absolutely HATE eachother and suddenly they just love eachother!! I get so tired of it since I'm the one who get to hear all their crap about eachother and I'm always in the middle.
Is that something I should be able to handle or are they wrong?
Cause right now I think I'm pretty fragile and I can't handle that much.
Gosh! I'm so tired of their shit and I wish I never meet them again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OH and happy new year everybody!!!!!! <3<3<3
11 comments:
Elin, you're absolutly right!
You're in the middle, and you can't stand that situation.
You're so called "friends" are just kids, hypocrites!
You're just too mature for them...
Leave them, reals friends don't critizice each other.
Happy New Year!
Hugs!
Hope you understand my bad english...
That sounds terrible :( I was in a similar situation in high school, I'd always have to listen to them bitching about each other.. But that's one thing.. if they also start to give YOU crap, well they're not real friends, especially if they know you're not at the most stable point in you're life. You'll be better of without them, trust me!
And well I just hope the new year will be a better year for you, so have a happy, healthy 2010! *hugs*
Yeah they're not real friends! And I'm never gonna forgive them.
But I'm a bit afraid 'cause they actually would be capable of killing, that's the scary thing! I dunno if they meant it but they totally would be able to murder somebody, atleast one of them. The other one just agrees 'cause she's to much of a coward to have her own voice.
When we were fighting she just agreed and just laughed at what I said and what my other ex-"friend" said. Every word I said they were just mocking me!
I thought they were real friends, but when they said I hasn't a life and no friends, I said I have a friends and they said that I have ONE friend and that they couldn't count all of theirs cause there are SOOO many!
I'd rather ha a true friend who I can trust that a alot of shit-friends like them!!
Ooo Elin, you realy think they could do something as horrible as killing somebody? You realy shouldn`t consider them friends, when they are so bad to you. Real friends stick together and help eachother, without threats and being mean to you.
I hope you get sorted this all out, but my suggestion to you is, that you realy shouldn`t be hanging out with them.
I wish you all the best and happy new year, may it bring you everything you wish for.
There's a saying that goes, "With friends like this, who needs enemies."
I'm sorry you have such 'friends' :/ ... it's best to ditch idiots like that. But Happy New Year, and I hope it's a better year for you than last year seemed to be for you.. and for the rest of us too, because last year sucked.
If they threaten you they are not your friends. If they make you feel unwelcome, or unwanted they are not your friends. If they reject your efforts to find a peaceful solution to problems within your friendship they are not your friends. Stop talking to them- violence or threats of violence from so called friends from your friends is just as much
" Abuse" as it would be if it was coming from your romantic partner, your parents, or your grandparents. If they continue to threaten you, in any way tell your parents, your psychologist, or your teachers at school I don't know how it is in Sweden but in the United States at least psychologists and teachers are legally required to report threats of violence against a patient or a student.
Don't let this get you down. Ignore them they are neither worthy of your time, or your energy especially when you have other things to focus on like recovering from your eating disorder and doing well in school. True friends are important, but they are not your true friends if they would threaten you like that.
I've told my parents and they're gonna talk to the school.
the ones i've told (parents,best friend(Imet her in the hospital) my uncle and my cousing) have all said that they're not getting away with this.
And in sweden the schools and psychologists are legally required to report this kind of things too.
Good to hear you're parents will talk to the school, I really hope this gets sorted and that they'll get punished for this! Hang in there Elin :)
It's a good thing that you've told your parents.
Now, leave them deal with this problem.
Take care.
Hugs.
THESE are NOT your Friends! Avoid them at all costs! They sound VERY Dangerous and Negative.
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